decembre

曾经有个帖子让我觉得温暖，但现在好像渐渐的冷了.....
各位姐妹们你们都好么? 欢迎大家到这个楼里来交流， 希望还能常常看到你们的留言。
huahua12, lindary, 是不是还要去做些检查？紫衫，你开始用中药调理了么？ 我到现在还没有好消息，中药已经喝了近一个月了，坚持的话相信应该会有作用，现在好像不那么怕冷了，呵呵，大概寒气是少了，对着床有帮助。

huahua12

decembre,看到你的贴，我眼前一热！好高兴又见到你！我现在就是些常规归检查，一切似乎还好！谢谢！

中医会有个过程，看来你反应还不错，这是好开端，坚持！有可能多锻炼一下，户外活动和室内游泳，羽毛球什么的。

lindarv

很高兴在这里见面.我现在每天在家养胎,希望一切均好.
我有朋友做IVF失败了,现在用中药调着,效果不错,现在月经周期和量都正常了,还自测出排卵.比以前状况要好很多.所以我还是很相信中药的.要坚持啊.

decembre

好开心我们又见面啦。 在这里能有大家相互支持鼓励和热心帮助，即使“革命”尚未成功，我至少不会失去希望......

真高兴能知道你们的新消息，常来这里坐坐啊， 呵呵，并祝姐妹们节日快乐！

huahua12

(ZT)

Being A Mom

We are sitting at lunch one day when my daughter casually mentions that she
and her husband are thinking of "starting a family.."

"We're taking a survey," she says half-joking. "Do you think I should have
a baby?"

"It will change your life," I say, carefully keeping my tone neutral.

"I know," she says, "no more sleeping in on weekends, no more spontaneous
vacations."

But that is not what I meant at all. I look at my daughter, trying to
decide what to tell her. I want her to know what she will never learn in
childbirth classes.

I want to tell her that the physical wounds of child bearing will heal,
but, becoming a mother will leave her with an emotional wound so raw that
she will forever be vulnerable.

I consider warning her that she will never again read a newspaper without
asking, "What if that had been MY child?"

That every plane crash, every house fire will haunt her.. That when she sees
pictures of starving children, she will wonder if anything could be worse
than watching your child die.

I look at her carefully manicured nails and stylish suit and think that no
matter how sophisticated she is, becoming a mother will reduce her to the
primitive level of a bear protecting her cub. That
an urgent call of "Mom!" will cause her to drop a soufflé or her best
crystal without a moments hesitation.

I feel that I should warn her that no matter how many years she has
invested in her career, she will be professionally derailed by motherhood.
She might arrange for childcare, but one day she will be
going into an important business meeting and she will think of her baby's
sweet smell. She will have to use every ounce of discipline to keep from
running home, just to make sure her baby is all right.

I want my daughter to know that every day decisions will no longer be
routine. That a five year old boy's desire to go to the men's room rather
than the women's at McDonald's will become a major dilemma. That right
there, in the midst of clattering trays and screaming children, issues of
independence and gender identity will be weighed against the prospect that
a child molester may be lurking in that restroom.

However decisive she may be at the office, she will second-guess herself
constantly as a mother.

Looking at my attractive daughter, I want to assure her that eventually she
will shed the pounds of pregnancy, but she will never feel the same about
herself.

That her life, now so important, will be of less value to her once she has
a child. That she would give herself up in a moment to save her offspring,
but will also begin to hope for more years, not to
accomplish her own dreams, but to watch her child accomplish theirs.

I want her to know that a cesarean scar or shiny stretch marks will become
badges of honor. My daughter's relationship with her husband will change,
but not in the way she thinks.

I wish she could understand how much more you can love a man who is careful
to powder the baby or who never hesitates to play with his child. I think
she should know that she will fall in love with him
again for reasons she would now find very unromantic.

I wish my daughter could sense the bond she will feel with women throughout
history who have tried to stop war, prejudice and drunk driving.

I want to describe to my daughter the exhilaration of seeing your child
learn to ride a bike. I want to capture for her the belly laugh of a baby
who is touching the soft fur of a dog or cat for the
first time. I want her to taste the joy that is so real it actually hurts.

My daughter's quizzical look makes me realize that tears have formed in my
eyes. "You 'll never regret it," I finally say. Then I reached across the
table, squeezed my daughter's hand and offered a
silent prayer for her, and for me, and for all the mere mortal women who
stumble their way into this most wonderful of callings.

Please share this with a Mom that you know or all of your girlfriends who
may someday be Moms. May you always have in your arms the one who is in
your heart.



This is so true to heart...

扇子2008

我也在royal victorial hospital reporduction center做的全面检查。等了6个月，期间还做了一次手术，终于出结果了。要做IVF+ICSI
护士给了一大堆信息，现在头都大了，不知道怎么选。付一次还是三次，不断的约不同的医生，还不一定能成功。不试又不甘心。

看完了大家以前的贴子，我还是不知道怎么办。为了看医生，还跟公司高层吵架，现在会有更多医生appointment, 高层肯定又要抱怨了。我真害怕工作压力会影响我做IVF的成功机率。

我也一直在看中医，不知道要不要告诉西医我在吃中药？

huahua12

的确要请很多假，没办法，最好能和公司沟通好。在我们办公室，基本没有个人隐私可言，所以这个问题也就“解决”了。

关于中医，我想应该没关系，他们知道的。

Post by 扇子2008
我也在royal victorial hospital reporduction center做的全面检查。等了6个月，期间还做了一次手术，终于出结果了。要做IVF+ICSI
护士给了一大堆信息，现在头都大了，不知道怎么选。付一次还是三次，不断的约不同的医生，还不一定能成功。不试又不甘心。

看完了大家以前的贴子，我还是不知道怎么办。为了看医生，还跟公司高层吵架，现在会有更多医生appointment, 高层肯定又要抱怨了。我真害怕工作压力会影响我做IVF的成功机率。

我也一直在看中医，不知道要不要告诉西医我在吃中药？

liyi2008

你好LINDARV 你知道那个中医看的好吗？请告知，谢谢啦！

大家好：自从来到加拿大我一直就月经不正常，好几个月才来一次，今天才看到此帖，真是太高兴了，请问你们都是让哪个中医看的，在国内我一直是看中医的，觉的挺好的，可到这边也看了几个可都觉的她们不够好，能告诉我你们的医生的地址和名字吗？谢谢啦！

Post by lindarv
很高兴在这里见面.我现在每天在家养胎,希望一切均好.
我有朋友做IVF失败了,现在用中药调着,效果不错,现在月经周期和量都正常了,还自测出排卵.比以前状况要好很多.所以我还是很相信中药的.要坚持啊.

i=i

并不是所有的症状都适合吃中药或ivf的。确诊非常重要。如是输卵管严重堵塞，且功能障碍，那肯定要做试管的．月经不调也是有很多原因的，如果不对证，吃十年中药也无济于事．西医有iui,ivf,icsi等等，有简到难多种辅助生育手段。虽治标，但快．另外男方也需同时检查，精液的状况也不是一成不变的．目前试管婴儿世界水平成功率２５－３５％，也就是说不是百分百成功．国内现在的水平也很高，３万人民币左右，而且如有冷冻胚胎，还可小费用做多次移植，成功率会倍增。

扇子2008

我想请问huahua, 你的保险是group insurance吧？可以告诉我保险公司的名字吗？我问了好几个保险公司都不cover fertility medication。