Post by 低音符;2181284
这位反共人士的话也不全对。我是早期被移民公司骗来的。当时移民公司要了我一万美金,你可以想象大陆第一批独立移民来的年代。我给华人的公司打过工。我曾对一个朋友说,给人打工就像狗一样活着。他说连狗都不如。早期到温哥华来的,没有一个不骂加拿大是鬼地方。在国内,我们至少可以人模人样地活着,辞去公职到这里堕落到打工仔的地步,有他妈的什么狗屁尊严?!享受他妈的什么狗鸡巴自由平等?加拿大移民部长是你的恩人,我觉得不过是个一般的流氓政客。
Post by yelenia;2181697
为什么要用别人的标准要求自己! 为什么你需要用别人眼里的中国来认同自己?!这不是犯贱吗?
看来,你虽然无限仰慕加拿大,以及西方的文明,但你完全不明白西方文明的精神!——individualism! 你自信,只因为你是你自己! 因为你自己身上总有别人无法复制的优点!看待我们的文明也是一样!
most chinese are conceited, that is simply becasue we are educated that way by communist propagandas. you are proud of your roots, that is fine, but when you look down other people, that is different story.
many of your statements are questionable and lacking of supportive arguements. here are two of them:
就我所见,这里的人们没有中国人那样艰苦奋斗的精神,热心助人的传统: i don't know how you come to this conclusion. you claim you understand western cultures and customes becasue you married a western man, but it seems to me this kind of judgement is very shalow and groundless.
almost everyone in china is workaholic, the ultmate goal is money, house and car. there is no balance between materials and life. they can not be totally blamed due to different pressues. but here people are diversed; some of them want to have a life, you can not accuse them of not working hard.
it is good you mentioned individualism in your post, but it does not seem you understand the benefit of this spirit in the western society: people seem to me more warm hearted here, but they draw a line to keep privacy. you can not jump to say they are not helpful.
我07年出来,感觉相比中国的日新月异蒸蒸日上,加拿大现在已经垂垂老矣!china is strong and will be stronger, nobody has doubt of it. but those prosperities are misleading and only enjoyed by certain group of people. let me put this way, only the time when there is toliet paper in every public washroom, then you can have the right to compare the two countries.
it is a good intention that someone like you, post 80, wants to bring fresh blood and new voices to this forum, yet unfortunatly your way of thinking is much behind many of aged people who hang around here.
Post by yelenia;2180663
听到这些,有人又该要骂我外嫁了吧 ?!想批评别人的时候,是总有由头的。