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xiaozhenxian, 谢谢, 我已经email给你.( J" V% I! A W$ b
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著名的sunshine先生/女士, 结婚只是表示两人愿意成为一种世人所承认的正式关系, 这跟寻求心灵归属是两回事.
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正因为我朋友中不信教的那方不想为了结婚而信教(那样信教才是"surface"), 才在此求助, 她的男友也不是那种极端教徒, 他不会把自己的看法强加到别人头上. 如果哪天女方能真正"inner heart's turning to God", 她会自己加入的.
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; W$ a+ d! O, E* C* u1 L总之结婚是个仪式, 如果能受到教堂的祝福最好(因为毕竟有一方是信教的).
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& h& S5 u) E' S A few months ago, somebody anwsered this question.
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But I wonder why your friend seeks for surface stuff not inner heart's turning to God. I mean, in the situation that one of the two is not a believer, the true believer should try his/her best to help the other come back from perishing.
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$ N1 ^- b9 p4 | K1 H" K% yWhat is the good if he/she get a surface ceremony, not a true love from a heart who loves the Lord? One heart is still hard with sinful characteristics. The marriage will not be fully blessed.
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