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xiaozhenxian, 谢谢, 我已经email给你.* u6 e$ O6 b2 [
" l" ?, [) i% N; j著名的sunshine先生/女士, 结婚只是表示两人愿意成为一种世人所承认的正式关系, 这跟寻求心灵归属是两回事. ! l& }1 _; y6 ?9 j: t
2 d( l: P1 t$ S* I `正因为我朋友中不信教的那方不想为了结婚而信教(那样信教才是"surface"), 才在此求助, 她的男友也不是那种极端教徒, 他不会把自己的看法强加到别人头上. 如果哪天女方能真正"inner heart's turning to God", 她会自己加入的.
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0 B, T* |, A" V! ~; U' l: ]) c6 V总之结婚是个仪式, 如果能受到教堂的祝福最好(因为毕竟有一方是信教的). ! |8 W4 n2 y5 W9 p& e h
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A few months ago, somebody anwsered this question." B7 g5 H& Z. J- ]
( D% x1 G1 d: x# S- wBut I wonder why your friend seeks for surface stuff not inner heart's turning to God. I mean, in the situation that one of the two is not a believer, the true believer should try his/her best to help the other come back from perishing.
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4 t9 t8 s- k/ ?& v' F7 b0 v ZWhat is the good if he/she get a surface ceremony, not a true love from a heart who loves the Lord? One heart is still hard with sinful characteristics. The marriage will not be fully blessed.1 d# s! E$ J$ F/ r! \7 H
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