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xiaozhenxian, 谢谢, 我已经email给你.( E: z. e% @/ y1 F I3 c3 a
! [/ r' b) a- o Y# R著名的sunshine先生/女士, 结婚只是表示两人愿意成为一种世人所承认的正式关系, 这跟寻求心灵归属是两回事.
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* M6 m: p& n$ B1 Y( U! {正因为我朋友中不信教的那方不想为了结婚而信教(那样信教才是"surface"), 才在此求助, 她的男友也不是那种极端教徒, 他不会把自己的看法强加到别人头上. 如果哪天女方能真正"inner heart's turning to God", 她会自己加入的.
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5 v( X, G) M9 h) ?1 a! Z总之结婚是个仪式, 如果能受到教堂的祝福最好(因为毕竟有一方是信教的).
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Post by sunshine
S5 G' r4 A, N4 J% P8 |8 P A few months ago, somebody anwsered this question.6 P0 H2 k! G! n/ x. E* f5 I
( b1 X3 W8 G! ]1 sBut I wonder why your friend seeks for surface stuff not inner heart's turning to God. I mean, in the situation that one of the two is not a believer, the true believer should try his/her best to help the other come back from perishing.
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5 n( a) @) W* w( e0 [5 G( oWhat is the good if he/she get a surface ceremony, not a true love from a heart who loves the Lord? One heart is still hard with sinful characteristics. The marriage will not be fully blessed.
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