好男人你在那里？

[SOPHIE08]

好男人你到底在那里？ :mad: :mad: :confused: :confused:

[Ste-Justine]

很有点叫春的味道！我就是你敢要吗？

[花花蝴蝶]

I heard the good-men are washing dish in chinatown in order to pay their gf's beauty cost.

therefore,go to chinatown to search your good-men who would like to work here for the whole life.

[Tekenn]

Good question. 直抒胸噫, 言简意赅. 问的好.

Well, you need to seek up and down, "上穷碧落下黄泉".

And, I think, generally speaking, to get a good lover, you must be either worth your salt or pretty smart or magnificently lucky.

Best regards.

[gladgirl]

Ste-Justine
不是已经有gf了么

[finger]

先来个俗的：原来在大学，听黄探长传经验，说去看录像，如果门口牌子上写的电影名字很玄，象QQ上的名字一样花，那没有必要进去看，因为一定偏于相对真理，但如果名字很简单，如“一夜情”，这就有点看头了，基本上你能了解到绝对真理。
再来个雅的：尤金（应该是这个人吧，记不太清了）好像说过：好男人就像一口深井，你如果不亲自掬一口，是无法了解到他的清冽与甘甜的。

[Ste-Justine]

女孩还在乎多吗？全面撒网，重点培养呀！

[gladgirl]

你真是高。小心MM们打的你祖国山河一片红.
joke.

[asdfdsa]

who knows where there is good man, maybe your demand is to high to be matched.

[nightmontreal]

Good man said:" Sweet, it is about time for me to pick up my kids from school now. I have to go right away. Give me one more kiss. Come to make love with you next time when I AM FREE."

The girl said nothing. And just slipped into the bathtube. A cigarette lighted. ...

[bob1000]

Dear SOPHIE08:

Are you a good girl or woman? If your answer is yes, please contact with me. I have been waiting a good Chinese girl to marry with since 1992 when I moved into Montreal. Where is a good Chinese girl (beautiful, kind...) in Montreal region?

[SOPHIE08]

1，ste-justine怎么知道你就好呢？ :mad:
2，tekenn，恩，我知道，谢谢你了，就是太累了。 wink
3，finge，你说得好，我有挖掘的能力，你有找到好井的秘方吗？井深不要竟就怕挖口枯井，怕挖到不止为我一个人供水的井，最尴尬就是怕挖到别人的井。 :D
4，bob1000，我是，真的是。 :)

[guoxiaolei]

好女人，你又在哪儿呢？

[taotao]

(1)好男人不是找的,是由好女人培养的,呵呵.
(2)如果已经是个好男人了,肯定是培养后的成品了.

[finger]

既然聊开了这个问题，我就多讲几句，以前在院里局域网我也是一支快笔，而且都是自己写的，不是那种随便到网上一划拉的那种。
我还记得《寻秦记》中说，“茫茫人海，要找一个兴趣、品性、脾气和自己相合的人，说难不难（人那麽多——三条腿的蛤蟆不好找，两条腿的人那还不是一划啦一大把），但也说易不易，。。。”
秘方我倒不知道，因为我还是一个人呢，这就如你向离过七次婚的人请教幸福婚姻的秘诀一样：不过书中告诉我要相信真爱是值得等待的；还有就是不要怕受伤，（当然怕遇到那种死缠烂打的那种，因为听说这种法子对中国女人很有效。也许我被书中所写的害了——那麽骄傲干什么？）
假设你找到了一个好男孩，你是好女孩吗？（别生气，一个假设）如果好男孩看到一个女孩随随便便和人就同居，甚至。。。（中国人不缺乏想像力，特别是在白胳膊方面）如果女的是真的爱对方，即使对方是老外，那我想在某种程度上我也是能接受的，情不自禁吗。但如果是因为生理上的或是想省点钱，甚至仅仅是想跟印巴人练练英语，你会找这样的女孩吗？
还有就是他们说的重新换个环境，开始新的生活，但这不代表你的人生可以随便格式化，自己可以不对自己负责的放纵，所以现在中国有了今天的信用危机，大家都觉得反正一会可以从来，他/她也不知道。在这种情形下，越是好男孩越想对自己负责，他也找得好辛苦。
“成长的烦恼”不知你看过没有？迈克的母亲担心迈克单独和问题女孩呆在家里会出事，回来后她盘问迈克，迈克的回答是“她想和我上床，但我给拒绝了，我也不知道为什么，自己真实无能，也许我是同性恋 。”“你不是同性恋，只是你知道如果你这样作，会有人很伤心，因为这违背他们的价值观，而且这些人很爱你”。
本来还要再说一些，但国内的伙计要上网聊几句，以后再说吧。

[沈阳球迷]

rover,it's really a nice song,thanks a lot.

[SOPHIE08]

taotao :你说得很对，提醒了我，真的是，应该想得更多的是怎么做好的老师的问题，教育是双方的事情，现在到处都是招生难，招好生更难，你有感悟吗？ :D

[SOPHIE08]

finger：真爱是值得等，我不是已经很久了吗？要不是有自己的价值观，要不是守着自己的格式，我不会提出那样的问题的，你说是吗？ :confused:

[asdfdsa]

SOPHIE08
Can you tell me what is the standard of good man, in this way, we can struggle ourself to meet your requirement.I am confused in this issue for a long time.

[SOPHIE08]

asdfdsa ：好男人对家庭绝对要有责任和宽容 :o

[asdfdsa]

SOPHIE08
in my opinion, marriage is a complicated deal, the couple exchanges their future, the key priority is equivalence, then it is a good deal,otherwise, the transaction can not last too long. you must have good adaptability and flexibility, the couple's development tendency and degree must correspond, otherwise, even at the beginning was a good deal, you are gradually dismatch. good here means suitability, even if meets suitability, then the good man or woman appear, isn't that. i can argue with you, i am conceived on this topic.

[asdfdsa]

do not use such words like absolute, the correct word is relative, absolute is only ideal daydream,
duty and endurance and tolerance are relative concepts, if you were too stubborn, the good man would never appear

[taotao]

(1)是双方互相教育的过程,不是只但但教育他.如果成功的话,他会是个好男人,你也会是个好女人.
(2)招生难不难看你要求高不高.基本的要求是(A)人聪明,这是事业的关键,也是你经济的保障.(B)人心好,没有坏心眼.有这两条足也,其他的无需要求.因为其他的素质都是可以培养的.
(3)很多人都向望真爱.而且总是把那些强烈的爱情看成真爱.但是年龄越大,真爱的机会也就越少.而且,真爱只容易发生在旷野的人身上,因为他们能够放开很多事情,专心于爱情.我相信SOPHIE08不是那样的性格.所以还是找一个细水长流,伴你一生的爱情吧.

[Mr.NiHow]

"但是年龄越大,真爱的机会也就越少.而且,真爱只容易发生在旷野的人身上,因为他们能够放开很多事情,专心于爱"

Ni How. I think it's wrong to say so.
1.the more expeirenced has more understanding, so the love is more matured;
2.the wild man won't concentrate on just one thing;

[bob1000]

Sophie8:

I believe you are an excellent girl. But how can I contact with you?

[asdfdsa]

What is a good wife
To be a good wife, you must qualify the following requirements.
1, If the husband need to receive more advanced education, the wife must work to support the family, taking care of the child, keeping tract of the children and husband’s dentist appointment, feeding child in nutritious way. You must arrange the child’s entertainment, such as going to park, zoo, swimming etc, The husband can not miss a class. Needless to say, the wife must arrange and pay for the care of the children while she is working.
2. The wife must handle all the husband's physical needs, keeping house clean, picking up after the husband, keeping the all husband’s clothes clean, ironed, mended and replaced when need be. The wife must keep all the husband’s personal thing in the proper place to get easily and rapidly. The wife must be a good cooker( never forget the budget of family). When the husband take a vacation, the wife must handle all the housewife’s duties so that the husband can relax entirely. Good wife never complain the her duties, on the coutrary, if the husband has something bothered him, the wife must listen to him and try to solve the problem.
3.The wife must take care of the details of the husband’s social life. to be more hospitable when some friends come to family, keep the house clean, prepare a special meal, serve all the friends , not interrupt when the husband talk about the interesting thing with friends. The wife must arrange the child not to bother the husband and friends, taking care of the needs of the guests so that they feel comfortable.
4, The wife must fulfill the total responsibility of birth control. Of course, the husband do not like it.. the wife must keep sexually faithful to the husband, of course, the husband do not like to be strict adherence to monogamy. If , by chance, the husband find somebody else more suitable, naturally a new and charming girl is the dream of a man, the wife must leave without too much trouble.
When a woman can accomplish all of these issues, the woman is a good woman. It is a great daydream.

[Ste-Justine]

SOPHIE08,你怎么就知道我不好呢？验货了吗？肯定好

[SOPHIE08]

wink 1。asdfdsa，作为一个女人应该为家庭那样做，但是我想说的是，能找到为这样的家做的动力来源在什么地方呢？还有：人的感情是很丰富复杂的，可以理解，但是一个男人为了家庭外的女人伤害自己的妻子和孩子，造成分裂的话，那他也会为此付出代价，哼 :mad: :mad:
:D 2。taotao，谢谢指点，我就希望那样的，现在就是为年龄急，怕没有了爱。
:( 3。ste-justine，你好狂。 eek!

[asdfdsa]

SOPHIE08
DO NOT misunderstand my meaning. I write the article only showing a daydream, and by the way remind you not to establish to excellent to require your potential boyfriend, the time last longer, the situation is worse for you, i am so kind i think.

[asdfdsa]

SOPHIE08
are you beautiful, charming, mature or sexy? with great curiosity, I do want to enjoy your attractiveness,never let me despair, in the same time, give you some key instruction.

[playboyca]

看了这个贴子,觉得好笑,我觉得这里满大街都是好男人,好女子,关键是看你是如何 定义所谓的好男人,估计的定义无非是有责任感,能挣钱之类的老生常谈.另外可能会要求一些细节,比如有情趣之类的东东.

从本质上讲,任何一个男人都具有作花心萝卜的可能,因为把雄性的精子最大范围的传播是生物界所有雌雄异体个体的共性,这就如同饮食男女一样,是人的本性.当然人类社会的进步压制了人在这方面的可能,所以就出现了所谓的好男人的定义.而且男人之所以会花心在现在社会很大程度上取决于他是否找到了他真正要找的妇人,如果是,那他在长时间内花的可能性不大,研究表明,所谓的爱情在生物化学上的持续时间只有2年,所以要求一个男人一辈子爱一个女人是不可能的,除非这个女人能够不断的更新自我,这样才能使一个优秀的男人觉得有新的感觉.如不然,男人移情的可能是很正常的.所以与其说没有好男人,不如自我检查一下,看看自已是不是一个好女人.

我感觉好男人的定义是应该重情重义,对于老婆,即使移情别恋,也能作到如新婚一样的爱护和尊重,对朋友讲信义,对工作投入,懂得孝悌之义,明夫妻之责,这就可以了.还要如何?

[bluebell]

Playboyca:
那么，好女人又该如何定义呢？
能够做到“对于老婆,即使移情别恋,也能作到如新婚一样的爱护和尊重”可真不容易啊，尽管有人写过一句：男人是茶壶，女人是茶杯。

[SOPHIE08]

相依不易，定义在自己。

[Ste-Justine]

你还不睡觉？不困吗？为了找个好男人也不至于不睡觉呀！再说好男人一般作息时间都很规律的，这个时间只有坏男人

[haohaoxuexi]

好女人你在哪里？
有不落男财女貌俗套的吗？

[SOPHIE08]

s：你说得有道理，不过我也确实没有时间，有空就很晚了，我也没有办法，我是太有规律了，好男人是很早睡吗？我不知道，但是他们第二天可以看的嘛，这是问题吗？全面撒网真累，不知道培养累吗？ wink
asdfdsa：你好。怎么没有见你的文笔了，一次写太多，现在没有说的了？ :D
haohaoxuexi：你脱俗吗？你超凡吗？ :confused:

[longtime007]

好男人在这里！
我叫杨晓萌，今年21岁，在MCGILL读大学，身高175cm。
绝对是好男人，不信，你可以来找我看看！
我的EMAIL是walmart_yang@hotmail.com

[asdfdsa]

SOPHIE08
can i chat in computer with you, i am tierd writing article. do you have msn, exceptional girl. maybe you are a dream lover, if you do want to read my typical thesis, i can satisfy you, aother question, do you find good candidate? please handle it in a hurry, time is up.

[Eversun]

好男人我也知道一个，幽默强壮1米八八，不过已经有女朋友了。

[marriedMan]

Boys and Girls, These are the attributes for your reference. Good luck! Sophie08, what do you think?

What I Want in a Man, Original List
1. Handsome
2. Charming
3. Financially successful
4. A caring listener
5. Witty
6. In good shape
7. Dresses with style
8. Appreciates finer things
9. Full of thoughtful surprises
10. An imaginative, ro! mantic lover

What I Want in a Man, Revised List (age 32)
1. Nice looking (prefer hair on his head)
2. Opens car doors, holds chairs
3. Has enough money for a nice dinner
4. Listens more than talks
5. Laughs at my jokes
6. Carries bags of groceries with ease
7. Owns at least one tie
8. Appreciates a good home-cooked meal
9. Remembers birthdays and anniversaries
10. Seeks romance at least once a week

What I Want in a Man, Revised List (age 42)
1. Not too ugly (bald head OK)
2. Doesn't drive off until I'm in the car
3. Works steady - splurges on dinner out occasionally
4. Nods head when I'm talking
5. Usually remembers punch lines of jokes
6. Is in good enough shape to rearrange the furniture
7. Wears a shirt that covers his stomach
8. Knows not to buy champagne with screw-top lids
9. Remembers to put the toilet seat down
10. Shaves most weekends

What I Wan! t in a Man, Revised List (age 52)
1. Keeps hair in nose and ears trimmed
2. Doesn't belch or scratch in public
3. Doesn't borrow money too often
4. Doesn't nod off to sleep when I'm venting
5. Doesn't retell the same joke too many times
6. Is in good enough shape to get off couch on weekends
7. Usually wears matching socks and fresh underwear
8. Appreciates a good TV dinner
9. Remembers your name on occasion
10. Shaves some weekends

What I Want in a Man, Revised List (age 62)
1. Doesn't scare small children
2. Remembers where bathroom is
3. Doesn't require much money for upkeep
4. Only snores lightly when asleep
5. Remembers why he's laughing
6. Is in good enough shape to stand up by himself
7. Usually wears some clothes
8. Likes soft foods
9. Remembers where he left his teeth
10. Remembers that it's the weekend

What I Want in a Man, Revised List (age 72)
1. Breathing
2. Doesn't miss the toilet

[haohaoxuexi]

我很俗， 而且不超凡， 是理想主义的实践派。 不知到好女人在哪里。 所以想看看有没有剩下一个半个种子。

[haohaoxuexi]

Taotao看起来不错，不过按照她的理论应该早已找到她的好男人了。

[newgoodboy]

我是个好男孩， 但可能我不够成熟。男人！ 好想显得很老似的。

[SOPHIE08]

哎。。。 :( 好累，可以写短点吗？有生气点。 :confused:
结了婚的男人是不是可以少说几句？现在你已经是抽象派了，看热闹还可以。我一有好消息马上告诉你。 :D

[mingliao]

好男人,坏男人在网上和社会有很多,但是"好男人"是不可能那么容易在网上就让女人钓到手的,在网上钓到的"好男人"也好不到那里去.也许是他,也许是我..哈哈..开开玩笑!

[analyst]

i am a very very very good man!! :) :)

[finger]

作个人，作个好人，作个好男人！SOPHIE08，你好，我是个好人，但不知道是不是个好男人，因为我没有太多钱，现在只能读书，刚考完试，如果你愿意，我们可以聊聊。

[dayie]

加拿大真是女人的天堂,随便哼哼两声,便引来了狂蝶无数.
应该来个擂台赛,比武招亲再抛抛秀球什么的,那多过瘾...

[marriedMan]

Come on, Sophie08, 幽默一点好不好。本大哥只是想助你一臂之力。只是因为你没列明你的好男人条件，所以就多列了一点。你总不至于真的像dayie所说的那样想引来狂蝶无数才故意不列条件吧。看看人家taotao的贴子，那就成熟有理的多。找好男人是要付出努力的。否则，不要说好苗子难找，就是找到，不用心培养，也很难成才(财)。祝你好运!

[SOPHIE08]

谢谢了。

[playboyca]

Sophie08,你在这里寻好男人,好象很长时间了,如果 有诚意,为什么不把自已的条件列一下,比如身高,长相,体重,性格什么的,至少让这些感受兴趣的人有个大致的概念,不要搞到最后一风阁下,离好女人的标准太远,大家都会很失望,如果要失望的话,最好在见面以前.

我以为好女人,首先要有好的容貌身材体质,其次是好的性格,再次能持家,这只是最基本的,至于象学历,家教,休养,各方面,每人可能有不同的要求,

如何,能否将阁下玉照一展,让网上众老五也好眼睛为之一亮.谢谢.

[熊熊]

那我就算好女人咯？？ eek! eek! eek!

[花蝴蝶]

:mad: :mad: :mad: 我是魔鬼,漂亮妹妹请勿靠近!!!! :mad: :mad: :mad:

[熊熊]

这年头，好男人都 :D :D 是别人的男朋友和老公了阿。。。。

[花蝴蝶]

我是坏男人.... :( :( :( frown

[playboyca]

2M的话有理,如果EVIAN和SOPHIE08真是有此自信的话,何不现一现真面目,也让众小子折服一次.
长相身材体质不过关,其余一切免谈.

[Mr.NiHow]

do you believe a goodman never fall in love?

[playboyca]

有一定道理,好果是一个出以的男人,一定会有很多女人为他着迷,所以他有很多机会接触不同的优秀的女人,而人的本性本来就是易变的,所以,再爱上另一个是很正常的事情,但不是说一个优秀的男人不会有真正的爱情,而说优秀的男人的对某一个人的爱情不会维持太长的时间,据我的经验,3个月就足以对另外的女子产生兴趣了.
好男人的特点是不会因为爱上另外的女人而抛弃旧爱,所粳糠之妻不下堂,这是道义问题.
那些想天长地久的爱情的女人,还是明智一点,不要找太出色的男人.

[熊熊]

To Playboyca:
九周半男人？？ eek!

[SOPHIE08]

有照片，不知道怎么发，还有。。。也不太妥当吧。 :D

[charles888]

看热闹!!! 可千万别在这里看到美女...

[finger]

不找我聊，等我上课想聊都没功夫聊了，好了，呆在家里5天了，该出去走动走动了，顺便给朋友找个房。就去健身房里耍耍吧。

[rosewiththorns]

嘘...听说Angel家里的不错，不信你们看看去！

[SOPHIE08]

有缘不在于需要多少时间。

[asdfdsa]

SOPHIE08
i find that you are a little bit childish, previously i wanted to give you some guide, but noe, i am involved with something and have no time to teach you,no girl share my good experience, it is tragedy.

[SOPHIE08]

那真还有点遗憾，我也没有太多的时间。 :D :D

[playboyca]

hi, sophie, i think maybe you are a male, and just want to make a joke to all the pity singles in montreal. you said too much, and did too little, why do not you upload your photos, so what know how good you are, or how man or woman you are.

if you do not know the method to upload photo, i can tell you.

if you are condident about yourself, just do it.

[SOPHIE08]

hehe...看来我是女孩子对你很重要。 :D :D 我选择条件参看“诚征男友”早贴了。 :o :o

[坏男人]

坏男人在这里。 :mad: :mad: :mad:

[playboyca]

我是很认真的在征男友，由于时间有限，请你们不要浪费时间好吗？
我择友不光只是年龄，还有：1，175cm左右，
2，研究生毕业（包括国内的）
3，心地善良，为人忠厚，
4，有家庭责任感，
5，对事业有追求，不怕吃苦
6，心理健康，身体健康。
7,婚否不限（婚者须无孩子）
有诚意者请留电话在:sophie_l08@yahoo.com
我给你联系。

[playboyca]

我是很认真的在征男友，由于时间有限，请你们不要浪费时间好吗？
我择友不光只是年龄，还有：1，175cm左右，
2，研究生毕业（包括国内的）
3，心地善良，为人忠厚，
4，有家庭责任感，
5，对事业有追求，不怕吃苦
6，心理健康，身体健康。
7,婚否不限（婚者须无孩子）
有诚意者请留电话在:sophie_l08@yahoo.com
我给你联系。
according to you note for boyfriend, i can imagine something sophie
1. 1.60-1.63 meter high
2. master degree
3. should have some experience in making boyfriend, maybe has some experience of marriage.
4. about 27-29 years old.
5. for looking, i think she should be just ordinary. but i really hope she is pretty.

how do you think about my imagination.

[daliannese]

现成的好男人：
1。83，有钱有闲！

[坏男人]

时间有限？我倒是看到这个索非成天泡在这里，挑来挑去也没有结果，似乎自己是百里挑一？小姐，这即使在国外也别这么挑花眼好不？虽然男多女少的情况确实存在。

[badguymontreal]

真正条件好的女人也不用在这儿找老公，身边追的应该很多。女人长相不过关，一律免谈。有勇气贴自己照片吗？

[Jonny.RRR]

婚前守节是评判好男好女的唯一标准，对未来负责的人可托付一身。

[S0PHIE08]

according to inquiry of all friends, i upload my picture. so shy wink :p

http://love.elong.com/usrpic/v/vivimx_pic1.jpg

[坏男人]

挖塞，终于见到大美女的玉容了。可惜不是俺喜欢的类型。好男人们，追啊！！！！！ :D :D :D :D :D :D

[asdfdsa]

SOPHIE08
how about your shape, in fact this is key problem, only face is not enough, can do dare to declare your 3 circle sizes? in my opinoin face only cover 20 percent beantiful.by the way, why do you require master degree, nothing, only when he earn relevant money, can the master degree is useful.

[S0PHIE08]

actually, i do not care what degree my future boyfriend has, i only hope he is excellent, handsome, rich, and resposible.

i am a slim beauty. so, i wish every guy who want to contact should be excellent enough. please do not waste all of our time. thanks.

[playboyca]

hi, sophie08, after seeing your photo and reading your words, i think i am not able to eat anything in the coming 3 days. you are too pretty and too confident.

i fU(2) LE you

[OldMan&Sea]

又让大家浪费感情了。 这照片好象是从一个征婚网站来的

[boboda]

oh, my god!
sophie, you call this slim beauty?
with this kind of look, and you looking for excellent man???? and rich??????? please, be more realistic. if you can find any man, include white man, you should feel lucky.
i think the boss of that stinky little chinese restaurant might be the perfect fit for you. by the way, he is looking for some beautiful and smart ladies.
do you have a mirror at home??? i really respect you for your encouragement to post such a picture on this board and call it a slim beauty!!!!
are you the relative of angel?

[asdfdsa]

S0PHIE08
there are quite difference between your former and current requirement, you are childish, do not you know that sexy shape plays a vital role in sex, and the quality of sex plays the vital role on marriage, you should have this kind of experience, if you do not have this experience, how miserable you are, a typical pity traditional
girl, I am responsible to disuade you, your hope is too excellent for you to reach,sometimes you like a 18-year-old pure little girl, remeber good medicine is alwaye bitter, i do want to help you.

[S0PHIE08]

asdfdsa
please do not be so SE here, from your current words, i do not want say anything to you. just stop, please.

i believe i can find an excellent and handsome and rich boyfriend. god bless me

[bob1000]

Sophie08:

If the girl is you, I have to say that you are not beautiful at all. At best, you say you are just so so. I wish you will be lucky to find a intelligent, handsome and rich man to marry with you. But such chance is rare.

[旺才]

试试我咋样？ :cool: :cool: :cool: :cool: :cool: :cool: :cool:

[keqi]

鱼说:你看不到我的眼泪，因为我在水中。
水说:但是我能感觉到，因为你在我的心中。
好男人也许只能用心去体会

[迷失后乐园]

...那也可能都死光了呢???~或许吧

[Mr.NiHow]

This is an interesting but time wasting place.

My 007 said: The quickest is to meet with each other n believe in "Love at First Glance" from each side.

Have you ever or dare try that?

[Mr.NiHow]

This is an interesting but time wasting place.

My 007 said: The quickest is to meet with each other n believe in "Love at First Glance" from each side.

Have you ever or dare try that?

[asdfdsa]

those who only want to benifit and grt something from marriage will lose all in thge end, first of all, you must dedicate yourself, then reward, the principle is natural, only those who dedicate a lot can win the good marriage, little girl , learn how to dedicate first. you must be sure what i can bring to my boyfriend, am i competitive? in fact, i qualify your standard, but bye, i will never appear again. it is the last time for me to post here.

[S0PHIE08]

i am sure i am a very nice woman, and i am also sure that maybe i am the best woman you have met.if you really want to know me, would you please tell me more about you. and i think the looking is also very important. for me, i have upload my picture, and are you brave enoughÉ

and everyone has different standard of beauty, maybe somebody do not think i am pretty, but someone does. and i believe i am not only a pretty girl, but also a beautiful woman. i will know a excellent man. if you are, you can contact me. thanks.

[zhejiangningbo]

最好的男人是谁我不知道，世界上与我年龄相当的最好的女人，只有我老婆。

[minicat]

再加一句,你所遇到过的

[zhouxingxing]

再加上一句,和你那个了的.

[真正好男人]

哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈。。。。。。。。
各位好。 有没有在中国的自由市场买过菜? 比如说：买罗卜。 有虫的不能要，空心的不能要，干瘪的不能要，新鲜的价钱贵一点， 新鲜而且长的没有疙瘩的可以再涨一点价， 杂交的或者是进口的因为有新鲜感可以继续涨价， 如果是退货价钱会便宜一点。 市场供求关系确定价格， 旺季时减价而且要勤吆喝才能出售， 淡季时涨价，再吆喝就是锦上添花，卖个好价！ 依我的经验，不是特别新鲜的罗卜，喷上点儿水以后，感觉也有点新鲜。--- eek! 不要外传喔！

祝愿各位能把握市场机遇，都做赢家，不做输家！

[fisherbird]

这个话题论及好的男人，而定义是“英俊的，有钱的，聪明的，负责的”。实在是我见过的不能在肤浅的论调了。

所以不英俊的，不富有的，不聪明的男人，就统统成为了坏男人。如果更严格的说，不同时具备“英俊的，有钱的，聪明的，负责的”条件的男人，都是坏男人了。555555555

很难想象现在的女孩已经粗俗肤浅到这样的程度。而不难发现符合要求的“男人”，大家经常定义为“花花公子”或者“绣花枕头”。

也许，更恰当的说“绣花枕头”求配“花花公子”吧。

只不过，这个枕头的花碰巧绣的不很美观。 :D :D :D :D :D :D :D

[坏男人]

哼，俺从来不缺女人。 :D :D :D

[SOPHIE08]

那位姐姐，你为什么盗用我的名字？ :mad: :mad:
我可没有那样的照片。 eek!

[SOPHIE08]

姐姐你为什么冒用我的名字？？ :mad: :mad:

[SOPHIE08]

姐姐你为什么冒用我的名字？？ :mad: :mad:

[真正好男人]

如果那位大婶冒用了你的名字，应该批评。
但是你可不可以写明白自己的要求或者贴下正版照片呢？
--------- 我不是候选人。

[SOPHIE08]

几天不来就。。。。 :( 太过。。。 :mad: :mad:

[坏男人]

迟速觉得齐红虞姝还有一些利用价值，至少虞姝还能做一些文书工作。
养活俩人没多大开销，她们俩已经俯首帖耳，这可不是一般女职员可
以做得到的。最初对虞姝没有太大把握，现在看到虞姝已经如此就范，
迟速有一种要风得风，要雨得雨的感觉。在虞姝面前，迟速故意端出
老板的架势，看见虞姝谨小慎微的样子，迟速心里就好笑。原来淑女
都是可以被金钱改变的，开始那一付清傲的劲头去哪儿了？迟速有时
鄙夷地看着虞姝，心想一个穷乡僻壤的丫头片子，竟然花费我那么多
功夫，真他妈看走眼了。今后一定要让她给我加倍补偿回来！

[真正好男人]

SOPHIE08, DON'T WORRY. C'EST LA VIE!
要是受了委屈也别闷在心里面。今天周末，我有空， 说说看你的想法。 首先你应该完整地表达自己，真是好酒，也不能藏在深巷里。 表达明白以后，就是姜太公钓鱼了，你就只管条哪条鱼更肥了。 否则，就是浪费自己和别人的时间。 :rolleyes: 没有关系，加拿大人的时间很多的。

[真正好男人]

糟糕！ 差点忘记我是真正好男人， 现在时间已晚，虽然是周末， 此地也不是久留之地。 有空再见吧！晚安！

[lao liu]

索菲：你好！
我感觉你也许就是我所认识的那个聪明，漂亮的女孩，也许你在猜，我是谁？如果是，我想可能你会想得出来！哈哈！
如果是的话，我公正的说，的确是各方面都不错的好女孩！

[N]

贴照片的SOPHIE估计是别人冒充的，两人的 ID不同……

[坏男人]

冒充者以0代O。 :D :D :D

[dayie]

差不多啦，都不是好人啦

[SOPHIE08]

条件早帖了，正版的绝对比盗版年轻，漂亮。 :cool: :cool:

[dayie]

再过两年都一样了啦! :D

[坏男人]

吹牛X不违法，不上税，不。。。尤其是在网上。 :D :D :D

[playboyca]

牛X什么,有本事把自已的相片贴出来,让大家品评功一下,首先声明,我不是候选人.

[刀枪blue]

好男人不好做,再辛苦也不说.

[taotao]

前几天 看到那个照片,我不仅大笑, 这肯定是个假照片, 我猜测是SOPHIE08 贴出来搞笑的,或是来测试一些男人对相貌的在乎程度, 仅没有料到有人冒充了IP.

我相信SOPHIE08是个综合素质很高的女人,也许不是貌如天仙,但起码是中等偏上, 男人第一眼看上去会产生好感的那种. 至于文凭, 应是硕士毕业. 理解力也很高, 而且很理性. 也不是随便的人, 还在等待爱情的降临.

我不认为在这里找一个好男人是一个好方法,这里太自由了,每个人都可以随便说任何话,没有可以让人相信的话.

在这里只想奉劝那些满足SOPHIE08条件的人, 做为男人,应该主动去追求这样的女人.

[刀枪blue]

不怕揭皇榜,就怕魂断兰桥.

[haohaoxuexi]

Taotao, 讲话总是要成熟而中肯些。 可惜我所料不差 --- 你一定已经找到好男人了。

[坏男人]

也许不是貌如天仙？？？肯定不会是啦，否则也不会到这儿来找男友。长相能及格就不错了。不要ABUSE漂亮一词。 :D :D :D

[SOPHIE08]

谢谢taotao，你真了解我。

[SOPHIE08]

haohaoxuexi你自己学习就是了管那么多干什么哟。
漂亮的，丑的都不喜欢“坏男人”纵然有“男人不坏，女人不爱”之说。

[leelee248]

Hi:
I am very bad. Anyone likes me?

[haohaoxuexi]

说得很对！ :) 快开学了， 没时间再找好女人了。 青春易逝，时不我待，号角在催，战鼓在擂，伙计们抓紧时间，加油啊！冲啊！ 哒哒哒哒哒哒哒哒---------- :o
祝诸位捷报频传，皆大欢喜！ 有空再来听听大家的好消息！ 哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈。。。。。。
:D
:D :D wink

[taotao]

haohaoxuexi 居然把我认做女人,真是笑死我了.我可是纯正的男人,然而我
---矮, 不到1.70, 离SOPHIE08的确1.75要求差很多阿
---学历, 离去MASTER很远阿
---懒,虽然男人通常大都懒(家务活方面),我比一般懒男人还要懒阿
---相貌,从来没有人说过帅,做为男人,不到55KG实在惭愧.
---心眼,俺有一颗女人似的豆腐心,不知是好是坏

综上所述,我既不是好比男人,也不是坏男人,俺只是个小男人,因此,俺连看一眼SOPHIE08满足一下眼欲的希望都没有想过.

[haohaoxuexi]

Taotao, SORRY！ 俺就是说嘛！ 女人咋会说话这么成熟有理性！ :D
肯定有几个好女人喜欢你的类型！ 不在这里就在那里啦。
哈哈哈哈哈哈。。。。 GOOK LUCK！ :cool:

[peanut123]

东风吹来,战鼓擂嗷,这个世界到底谁怕谁.!

sophie如此多娇，
引无数英雄竞折腰。
惜游泳的鱼，
略输文采；
小个taoato，
稍逊风骚。
haohaoxuexi，
只识弯弓射大雕。
俱往矣，
数风流人物，
还看peanut。

:cool: :cool: :cool:

[mainlander]

Why not touch the most important require? (very seriously speaking)
D>=2cm L>=15cm
and, loyalty

[SOPHIE08]

:o :confused: 感谢补充。 eek! :mad:

[hiaeamontreal]

but how to measure the criteria of mainlander

[hiaeamontreal]

位充满智慧的男人曾经告诉我：“作为一个男人，为了活你就必须先得死一次。”我既没有把他的话太放在心上，也没有完全明白他话中的意思，直到我有了一次亲身经历。
　　
　　 也许有人会说：“你明白了，我还没明白呢！”那么，我就来解释一下：为什么有些被认为不怎么样的男人身边总断不了女友相伴？为什么你这个好男人却偏偏形单影只？
　　
　　 我是说，男人为了有佳人相伴，就必须首先让那个“好”我死去——一阵心痛的感觉之后，彻底释放内心的“坏”我。
　　
　　 一个经历过真正的爱情，为意中人奉献了一切，之后发现自己的心恰恰被那个人撕碎的男人一定能够理解我的意思。而那些还没有被他以心相许的那个人伤害过的男人很可能并不相信我的理论。无论如何，了解好男人终将失败并且屡试不爽的原因是非常重要的。
　　
　　 与很多女人认为的不同，男人是很希望建立一个成功的感情关系的。大多数男人都不会放弃任何追求自己梦中情人的机会。事实上，当一个男人真的遇到令自己心仪的女人，他的激情就会唤起心中的“好我”。他脑海中浮现的都是“我要把这个女人留住，因此我要做个好男人，我要好好待她，我要为她做一切事”这类的想法。
　　
　　 唯一的问题是，做好男人同时意味着做无聊的男人。征服别人和争取无法得到的东西都是能够带来极大兴奋感的欲望，做好男人会使与你交往的女人失去享受这种兴奋感的机会。最终，女人会因此失去对你的兴趣。
　　
　　 其结果就是，这个女人再去找一个能够为她的生活重新带来兴奋感的男人——通过接受一个新的挑战。挑战和兴奋感通常来自自私的态度，比如一个只在乎自己从不在乎别人的“坏”家伙的态度。好男人只能带着一颗破碎的心看着心爱的人远去，扪心自问究竟做错了什么。
　　
　　 直到这时，他才渐渐意识到，女人大都不清楚自己想要什么样的男人。反正做好男人在这个阶段肯定是没有益处的。办法只有一个：让“好我”死亡。这就是生活，是好男人们的大势所趋。
　　
　　 女人不断伤害着好男人，却把不怎么样的男人给她们带来的痛苦视为有益身心健康的良药。男人最终（并且往往很快）将会发现女人的这种“心愿”。于是，他们与内心中的某些东西一刀两断，开始学习做一个“不怎么样的男人”。
　　
　　 变成这种类型的男人，一般应该表现出偏激的态度，并且装得像个完全自私的男人，从不考虑别人的感受。另外，你还应该学会巧舌如簧的本领。这样的人能够为女人的生活带来天翻地覆般的激情和兴奋。直到木已成舟，女人又会为这个人伤心抑郁。因为此时，这个男人已经确确实实再不愿意完全地投入感情，以免引火烧身。可见，当女人在经意或不经意间将好男人改造为不怎么样的男人时，她们其实在搬起石头砸自己的脚。
　　
　　 如果说女人其实是想要好男人的，为什么多数好男人至今单身？又为什么我们总能听到某个女人与大无赖约会的故事？
　　
　　 原因是女人一般不想要好男人，或者说，她们没有意识到自己需要好男人。女人只重视情绪上的反应而不看事实真相。谁能为女人带来情绪上的跌宕起伏？当然是无赖们。
　　
　　 归根结底，我们究竟应该怎么做呢？没有人想被感情伤害，但也没有人想真的被当作无赖。重要的是，在感情面前保持态度的平衡。男人应该有本事追求女人，取悦女人并且保持自身的挑战性以便让女人兴奋。也就是说，应该好好对待女人，但要摆正她在你生活中的位置。不要从一开始就把她供在至高无上的位置，浑然忘记这世上还有你自己、你的至亲骨肉和你的朋友们。

SOPHIE08, do you feel more confused

[SOPHIE08]

看得我好累，不过有见解，如果再提炼一下就好了。 eek!

[GoodMan007]

To SOPHIE08 :

Do you have any harvest? eek!

[silencehrt.]

hiaeamontreal
绝! 这说法太精彩了！

[prideone]

very good point. gentlemen, sometimes we should not care more about ourselves. Do not control too much. let the feeling or desire flow freely. we are created as a man and man has his ambition, his responsiblility, his pride, his dignity, but when lonly night fall, we have to release something. If you like a girl or woman, you need to show you have the feeling for her. do not be shy. be a "bad" man.

[SOPHIE08]

goodman :还没有，那个好人是你吗？007可是男人中的男人， :D :D

[坏男人]

007，不照样是花花公子？见一个玩一个，这就是“好”女人眼中的好男人？看来这“好”女人······
在这里谈过几个中国女友，但都是想嫁型的，令人生畏。
反而鬼妹们则只求fun和pleasure，身材谈吐都属一级棒，嘿嘿，建议兄弟们品尝一二。 :D :D :D

[SOPHIE08]

我说的男人中的男人可是电影中的007哟。 wink wink

[mainlander]

hiaeamontreal:by his nose and smell
P.S: thank you :D very much for your lovely theory

[mainlander]

I'm sure SOPHIE08 was joking with all of us, and I like this kind of joke

[huairen]

you call it joke?in the constrast I regard it as disgusting.many chinese like to play it even in real life.yeah,there are playboy and playgirl all around this world but be aware of a point,they are playing body rather than emotion.
I lose my appetite for chinese girl now.in fact other asian girls are more elegent than chinese gal and they are playing more openly and directly as long as you are wealthy and healthy.

[hiaeamontreal]

brothers
let us back china, there it is easy to find a decent job in foreign funds company, then you can live a decent life, just like me before, easy to chase a girl, girls like to go to bed with me. here, bullshit, without a decent job, you lose confidence, all girl are economic-orented, marrige is a bare deal, if we did not back china, we should not find a good lady. bullshit canada, quebec, i will never bach again, china has a lot of charming girls waiting for me, though the montreal chinese ladies is ugly, they regard themselves as noble, dawn montreal lady, go to die

[sorcery]

唉！千金易得，知己难求！ :(
无论是好的还是坏的，能找到适合的都实数不易。
GOOD LUCK！

[SOPHIE08]

老是说，有没有敢出来？这个周末还是下个周末？一起泡巴或者。。你们说好了。 eek!

[枯藤老树昏鸦]

今天晚上一起去泡吧怎样？

[hiaeamontreal]

sophie08
we can not meet 175 cm, master degree, who can out?

[Ste-Justine]

SOPHIE08
我一米八几，干你没问题，出来吧！

[downtown]

Ste-Justine, 南开大学就培养你这样的性变态吗？

[Ste-Justine]

郑重声明，这绝对不是性变态，是心理变态。我再性行为上很正常

[NiceGuy123]

To St-Justine:

Why did you get a female name?

[Ste-Justine]

你真么直到这时女孩名字

[NiceGuy123]

Justine===Justina. Are you a gay or Lesbian? It does not matter if so. Pls do not use S or F words here. eek! :) :p

[Ste-Justine]

笨蛋，那时地名

[bumpkin]

Ste is also feminine, for example, Ste-Catherine. St is masculine, for example St-Henri.

You SUC_K :D

[NiceGuy123]

Bumkin:

You are right. Ste is female, and St is male.
Thank you , sir

[SOPHIE08]

还是downtown有文化，你们看城市的人就是不一样，那些农民就只知道干，没有品位，找村姑去，不要浪费你的宝贵时间。 :D :D

[Ste-Justine]

我们家也是城市的，大城市，绝对不是农民，连菜农都不是。

[lao liu]

sophie,Do you have e-mail?If want to go bar with you,how to connect with you?

[SOPHIE08]

不是说农民的坏话，人家也是人呀，现在就是想当还得有几十万呢，就觉得说话很不舒服，180cm有什么了不起，那是身高而已，人要讲综合素质。 :mad:

[joylife]

Sophie, you are right. You got to evaluate up down and back forth. I am not tall but with top quality. Serously yours.

[hiaeamontreal]

sophie08
i remember that you have been searching husband for 2 monthes, how many interview chances have you gotten? i just got a offer, that means that i can not only support myself, but also support my family. unfortunately, i have not master degree and shorter than 175cm, how can i conquer you( i think you are a charming, innocent and even intact girl)?

[sansnom]

但愿有缘认识! :)

[Ste-Justine]

我综合素质很好的，都博士了还不好。你不是喜欢坏男孩吗，我就是，绝对特别坏。

[SOPHIE08]

当然臭了的蛋还是有人吃，你看不是对臭豆腐也有情由独钟 :D :D ，不过我不喜欢 :p
如果见得人，可以留联系方式呀，说不定，我发善心，有空当义工拯救一下坏孩子也是可以的。 :D :D

[hiaeamontreal]

sansnom
unfortunatey, i have not time, since i will work in Hanminton several days later, Ontario. It is hard to find job in Montreal, since the job opportunity is fewer than Ontario, the most crucial factor is French ability, i am so despair in it. so i have to survive in other english area. it is more difficult to find a wife in small town . when i was studying, though there are lots of single woman in Montreal, they like rich and successful man, i lose confidence, and suffered increditable lonlyness, sometimes i want to cry, when i gradually success a little and a little, i will move out. dawn. why the girl do not choose someone with potential ability? i think this kind of man should equiped with 3 requirements.1, good english. 2, better mayor or working experience. 3, powerful adaptability and flexibility. if you meet these requirements, i think the future is prosperous.

[SOPHIE08]

请版主清除这个topic :D

[SOPHIE08]

我没有做坏事，我如果去教堂忏悔只是告诉主，宽恕你这个迷途的羔羊。呵呵，，你快觉悟！！

[姥姥]

because the best man mr.hiaeamontreal is gone!

[SOPHIE08]

主会告诉你，她要吃你，你就让她吃吧，也许你就是应该被她吃掉，这是你的命，但是我会让你复活的，你的生命会得到永生。阿门！ :D :D :D

[SOPHIE08]

姥姥~~~~你怎么知道他是最好的呢？你有经验请告诉我 :D

[SOPHIE08]

从小我都喜欢肯骨头，没关系，我知道那里该用力，那里不该用，不过你都快过去了，就不要担心我了，也让我安静的肯好了，呵呵。。。 :D :D

[ChinaStory]

Good men exist anywhere, anytime. The things are:
1. How they are defined, by what criteria.
2. How you can identify them, based on your capability.
3. How you are able to keep them by ensuring yourself and them pleasure.
Be realistic, good men are not good at everything, neither good all the time. Developing bad men into good ones are tough. Unfortunately easy on the contrary. Counting more on yourself might be the best wayout though.

[SOPHIE08]

美丝不古 eek!

[SOPHIE08]

呵呵。。看嘛，肉都吃不到了，还叫我肯骨头， :D :D 简直没有诚意。 :mad: :mad: :mad:

[SOPHIE08]

还要我的命 :( :( 算了不吃了，我留着小命还要继续找好男人的， :D :D 我年龄还小，为了没有肉的骨头不值得。 :D :D

[SOPHIE08]

不，已经80年了，不容易呀，找不到好男人我就是不甘心， :mad: :mad: 如果你很帅，在天堂门口等我哟，不要再说谎了！！（西西， :D 我先多找几个好男人比较了再去， :D 西西）

[SOPHIE08]

恩！！！~~~~~~~~~不嘛~~~~~~~~地球上的资源我还没有用完，你就多等我一会会咯，你急什么呀~~你怕等错了人？？
:D

[SOPHIE08]

呵呵。。我又错了，哎！今天遇到鬼了，怎么来在召唤我 :confused: :confused:

[playboyca]

i met sophie08 several days ago, she is a stupid woman, ordinary looking, ugly voice. please do not sell you sex here, bless you.

[DannyLeo]

Sorry it is probably not my business, or I might be wrong.

But your ("playboyca") comments to SOPHIE08 are bit rough, what do you think? In a civilised world, I think, there is no one bad-mounthing other people.

An encounter, no matter how ugly or stupid she is, with a lady, is a blessing.

[DannyLeo]

Yes, I've heard some one crying out there: "you obscene, lustful bastard!".

Oooooppss! sorry, I did not mean to hurt anyone.

[SOPHIE08]

我是亲眼见了一，两个我认为很有德行的人，但是那人绝对不是你！！ wink

[SOPHIE08]

请版主清除这个topic，谢谢！！

[playboyca]

sophie08, i saw you in the street indeed, but you do not know me, my friend pointed that the ordinary looking woman is you, to be honest, you are even not as good as the photo post in this forum by you.

if you really wnat to find a good man, you should decrease your stardand of boyfriend. i do n ot think a excellent boy can like you.

[playboyca]

ovie,

seems you know what is polite, what is freedom, what is right. so what i did here is my business, which has nothing to do with you. what you can do here is just keeping quiet.

[不戒老和尚]

我看的武打书都有一层楼高了, 怎么没有练成侠客?
我不是好男人吗? 不是? 不是吗?
其实男人(女人也如此)没有好坏之分的.
只要双方: 老鼠看绿豆--对上眼就可以啦.

[不戒老和尚]

By the way, LOVE is MADE not SAID.

[playboyca]

ovie,

you know what is attacting, you do not know anything about this word. you should stay at home and taste you sugure.

what i said there is just disclosing the fact, an ugly woman is pretending to be a pretty and nice girl to cheat too many poor singles in montreal, i can not endure this, so i have to tell everyone the truth. do not waste time on such woman, this si what i did .

what you did here is just pretendign to be a nice man, and then dearm that maybe what so said pretty girl sophie will meet you. wake up please, stupid guy.

[冷眼看人生]

"If I saw a man beats a child or a woman, of course, I would stand up! "

What are you going to do if you see a woman beats a child or a man?

[NiceGuy123]

You guys are funny. Could you use more energy on sports and dating?

Sports and exercise make you more healthy :rolleyes:

Dating makes you happy :p

[Seaman]

To SOPHIE08:
你这傻孩子,好男人在你家里呀!
当然了,街上的男人不是你老公之前,都不是好东西,记住,啊.

:D :D :D

[Seaman]

To SOPHIE08:
你这傻孩子,好男人在你家里呀!你爹,你哥...
当然了,街上的男人不是你老公之前,都不是好东西,记住,啊.

:D :D :D

[老混混]

多项选择题： 好男人在那里？
(1) 已经和好女人结婚了，
(2) 正在准备和好女人结婚了，
(3) 还在幼儿园，
(4) 等你生一个。

[Seaman]

题出的好!

wink wink

[mainlander]

我真挺喜欢SOPHIE08的！真不错！！！ :p

[Admin]

I can't help saying a few words to Sophie08:
1)Your so-called PERFECTMAN or GOODMAN never exists.
2)If you were a girl, you really need a BADMAN because GOODMAN will never meet your requiremnts.

[Tekenn]

To SOPHIE08: 你找到好男人了吗? 还是将就着降低了标准, 找了一个不那么好的男人?

[Tekenn]

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[hello_5]

谢谢大家，
我从这里理解了很多我过去没有深入想过的东西。

[miinority]

不要心急，万事都要随缘，这样的事情更是啦！首先要放好心态，在要求别人是好男人的同时，自己也要努力做个好女人。

[可乐鱼]

好男人不少，要靠好女人去发掘

[tyjohnliu]

Nice men have been married!

[wtigery]

这里有一个